It's not even remotely disingenuous or dishonest. As HIAR pointed out in Crystal clear verbage in response to my earlier post, the easy access and the almost certainty that it will be a very quick and painless way out can, and often does make the difference between suicidal thoughts and actual suicide. As morbid as the topic is, far too many people who couldn't for myriad reasons go through with an attempt by other, less immediate or potentially lengthy and painful means will go through with it because they have easy access to a fire arm. That's not hyperbole or conjecture, nor is it dishonest. It's a well established fact.
I'm sitting here writing this as someone who has spent their entire lifetime suffering chronic major depressive disorder and a big goodie bag full of other issues. I'm also only able to do so because I make it a point not to have a gun handy.
I have owned guns. Several of them in fact. There was a time when I thought their presence in my home was a positive thing and that I could theoretically protect myself by having them. Fortunately, I grew up and wised up before having a particularly bad episode, else I'd surely be dead. Fact.
In reality, I'm a textbook example of someone who shouldn't own a gun. However, there is NOTHING stopping me should I ever decide I want to buy more.
The very tragic reality is that each and everyone of us knows at least one person whom we know damn well should never have access to a gun, but there's nothing stopping them either. Think about that. I guarantee you that if you flip through your mental Rolodex, it won't take long before a face pops into your head and you think "yeah... That person probably shouldn't own a gun".
As the report Chad linked to pointed out: when compared to 22 other high-income countries, we have a LOWER suicide rate, even with easy access to guns.
Yes, I know people who shouldn't own guns but legally do. I've also lost a friend to suicide, with a gun.
You asked why suicide is brought up when we talk about gun deaths: the reason is suicdes are lumped into our "gun problem" discussions, but rarely, if ever is that fact mentioned (certainly not in the headline). People are going to commit suicide with or without access to firearms. The aforementioned report has the numbers to prove that.
The honest question is, "would the number of suicides by
gun go down if we didn't have guns?", the answer is obviously yes. Unfortunately that dodges the actual real question, which is "would the number of suicides go down?". Or, if those 22 other countries had more access to guns, would their rate go up?
I'm glad you have a handle on your depression. I also appreciate and admire that you're comfortable sharing a lot of this online.
Are you against driver training and driving skills tests. Motorcycle training and skills demonstration? Were you trained to do your job, or did they just cut you loose on day one and let you figure it out?
I won't get into any of the other arguments on this topic because honestly I'm split on a lot of them, but demonstrating competency with a weapon and having a basic set of safety skills should be required. I have personally witnessed some incredible feats of mishandling of firearms over the years.
No, I'm not against driver training. I'm on the road daily with other drivers. I don't know the numbers, but I suspect I pass a lot fewer people with guns on a daily basis than people with cars.
Guns are nowhere near as complicated to operate when compared to vehicles. Yes, I've witnessed incredible incompetence from people with firearms; trained people who should have known better. I witness idiots in vehicles on a daily basis. Presumably they are licensed and trained idiots.
Here's a question for you: Since we teach drivers Ed in schools, should we teach firearms safety?