Question: Does this girl want to go out with me?

[cfgsteak]

Ok, so this super cute lady in my department comes up to me and says, "hey Steak, when are we going out for a beer?". I say, "I don't know, how about in 10 minutes"

She says, "ok, I'm packing up my computer!"

So I figure it's kinda odd, we don't talk much but I like her and she's smart and funny and really attractive. So we ditched out of the office like an hour early.

We go, I have the house IPA and she gets a Belgian white and we proceed to talk for a few hours with out a pause. It's like, fun. We talk a little about my divorce...I mention that it will be weird to date...and she says, "then don't date, just go out, like this". Hmm

Then she says, "maybe we should take the train downtown and bar hop at good breweries and not have to worry about driving". Hmmmmmm

Then she says 5 minutes later that we should meet the NEXT time at the brewery by where we both live. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm

Then we get up and go and she gives me a hug at the door and I go play magic.

Then it strikes me, the stuff above and I am wondering...does she actually want to go out OUT with me, or am I reading to much into it?

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[Knox in Box]

Duhh!!!!

SHE!!! set up the next date. The thing about meeting as friends was a way to just play off your comment on it being weird to date someone from the office. So she plays off to avoid feeling rejected.

My feelings: She has a fever for the flavor. <<< no doubt.

 

[cfgsteak]

Well, I just don't want to be assuming to much because we work together in the same office...but in the other hand it seems obvious. Hmmmmm

 

[B Valley]

Then you went and played magic? What the fuck?
You should have headed to the nearest Target and bought yourself some lace panties.
A real man would have gone home and beat off.

 

[cfgsteak]

Then you went and played magic? What the fuck?
You should have headed to the nearest Target and bought yourself some lace panties.
A real man would have gone home and beat off.

 

[reverend1]

Yeah, she wants to go out with you. Better check with the dungeon master to see if thats ok.

 

[Modern Saint]

Yeah, she wants to go out with you. Better check with the dungeon master to see if thats ok.

Seems to me she wants to go out and not date. IMO she is trying to see where it might go as well. Dates are so formal and you have to be on your best behavior. The cool part is she wants to spend time with you dude. If the situation works, then it goes further - if not do what BValley said

 

[wahcat]

Dont screw the crew. It makes it hard at work.

 

[Coralkong]

Then you went and played magic? What the fuck?
You should have headed to the nearest Target and bought yourself some lace panties.
A real man would have gone home and beat off.

True. True.lmbo

Dude, that's fantastic.

 

[Lerxst]

At my last job, a co-worked got let go for a relationship that went south & she made a discrimination charge w/ HR
At my current job, they let a guy go right before I started because he was dating someone at work and it was causing problems


got your resume in order?

 

[BlackCat]

Damn voices of reason. Taking all the fun out of things.

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[Athiest_Peace]

Go out as friends. have fun. Enjoy life. Fuck thinking about shit, it'll just give you a headache.

 

[mystixboi1]

At my last job, a co-worked got let go for a relationship that went south & she made a discrimination charge w/ HR
At my current job, they let a guy go right before I started because he was dating someone at work and it was causing problems


got your resume in order?

positive polly is positive... jk

steak - have fun and see where it goes... just have fun!!! don't think too much into it... just follow your gut

 

[Lerxst]

positive polly is positive... jk

steak - have fun and see where it goes... just have fun!!! don't think too much into it... just follow your gut

Reality bites, eh?

 

[Jbird]

Go out as friends. have fun. Enjoy life. Fuck thinking about shit, it'll just give you a headache.

This.

Just have fun as friends without expecting anything more. If 'anything more' happens, then it's a bonus.

 

[Coralkong]

Go straight for the pooper next time.

 

[reverend1]

Go straight for the pooper next time.

Make sure to check for a tattoo first.

 

[Coralkong]

 

[aliensporebomb]

The trick is to not let it cause problems. Go and hang out etc.

 

[parrotheada1a]

Dont screw the crew. It makes it hard at work.

This. I used to work in a nightclub where it was more or less allowed. It all ended one afternoon when one of the owners walked in on a manager and a waitress in various stages of undress. They got sacked on the spot, and the rest of us were warned that we would be in the same boat if we didn't behave.

I will say this though... if this chick wants to start hanging out over weekends, go for it slowly. You will probably get to see who she is at her worst. If you still be freinds with her after that, you could be damn lucky.