Now that I've been on a few dates

Yea, I can feel your pain... At 47, if I were single, the last thing I would want is any woman my age or older... When I was in my late 20s, on the other hand, divorced broads in their late 40's were a lot of fun, because you go to their nice house that they won in the divorce settlement, get fed a good meal, get the killer hot oil massage. and the good sex... Then, at around 2 in the morning, you leave and go home... Win/win...

Now you are no longer a young potential casual sex buddy, you are viewed as a middle aged bank account...
 
12Pack said:
Actually it's primary this one girl who is consuming ALL of my time. She left her toothbrush here and now has asked for a bottom drawer because it would be easier than carrying her night bag back and forth. I've been out with her maybe three-four times and she already dropped the "L" word. WTF?
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Run
 
Haven't heard from her all day. Unusual. I'm usually 30 texts by now. Maybe she is testing me... Challenge excepted.

Seriously- this is the part that sucks, having to break it to her to relax and back off a little bit. I don't dislike her. We have lots of laughs together. It's I'm not ready to be so serious with someone yet. I'm kind of enjoying single life at the moment.
 
12Pack said:
Haven't heard from her all day. Unusual. I'm usually 30 texts by now. Maybe she is testing me... Challenge excepted.

Seriously- this is the part that sucks, having to break it to her to relax and back off a little bit. I don't dislike her. We have lots of laughs together. It's I'm not ready to be so serious with someone yet. I'm kind of enjoying single life at the moment.
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yeah, that kind of sudden decision, leap without looking thing is MY gig
 
12Pack said:
Haven't heard from her all day. Unusual. I'm usually 30 texts by now. Maybe she is testing me... Challenge excepted.

Seriously- this is the part that sucks, having to break it to her to relax and back off a little bit. I don't dislike her. We have lots of laughs together. It's I'm not ready to be so serious with someone yet. I'm kind of enjoying single life at the moment.
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It will be easier now than at any point going forward.......
 
Easiest way to solve this problem is to tell her you lost your JOB! You hope she'll lend a supporting hand!

Then,

Two weeks will go by and you won't have heard from her.

How to get rid of a stocker 101~reverse psychology
 
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tweed deluxe said:
Easiest way to solve this problem is to tell her you lost your JOB! You hope she'll lend a supporting hand!

Then,

Two weeks will go by and you won't have heard from her.

How to get rid of a stocker 101~reverse psychology
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Welcome tweed deluxe - sounds like you are going to fit right in here.
 
12Pack said:
Haven't heard from her all day. Unusual. I'm usually 30 texts by now. Maybe she is testing me... Challenge excepted.

Seriously- this is the part that sucks, having to break it to her to relax and back off a little bit. I don't dislike her. We have lots of laughs together. It's I'm not ready to be so serious with someone yet. I'm kind of enjoying single life at the moment.
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Maybe you could tell her about the same as you just wrote, but in a better context:
"I really enjoy our time together. You're a wonderful woman. I also need you to understand that I'm fresh off of a long term relationship, and need a little space now and then. I'm not ready to get in a serious relationship so soon. I'm not breaking it off with you, just letting you know where I'm at right now, etc..."

Then, kick her in the taint and RUN!
 
Tig said:
Maybe you could tell her about the same as you just wrote, but in a better context:
"I really enjoy our time together. You're a wonderful woman. I also need you to understand that I'm fresh off of a long term relationship, and need a little space now and then. I'm not ready to get in a serious relationship so soon. I'm not breaking it off with you, just letting you know where I'm at right now, etc..."

Then, kick her in the taint and RUN!
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How'd you get so sensitive, Tig? You're so articulate and understanding. You're giving me a chubby. What's your Eharmony username?













...would you mind if I used it to do bad things to mature desperate single ladies?
BWAHAHAHAAHAAHAHAHAHA!
 
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