I can't comment, from an elevated perspective. I've done worse.
This bassist who started a band with me began drinking, what used to be his problem.
His wife started phoning me, talking about he got kicked off the company hockey team for fighting,
drinking too much, and now drinking again with our band.
He got bad, even if he maintained his playing ability, so one night I decided to push it.
While I was soloing, I walked around behind him and kicked him in the ass, enough to move him.
He stumbled forward off the over foot high stage, onto the dance floor, but kept his head down, still playing.
That was enough to make everyone sit down and discuss it, the band deciding to fold in two weeks.
The keyboardist and I had other reasons to go our seperate ways,
but that involved him and his father, and me naked under a blanket with a new girlfriend.
And nothing was determined to be passive, electronically, or passive-aggressive, emotionally.
If you got the beat steady for the dance floor, look good and have your music, uh, memorized,
that should be enough to go over anywhere.