Haven't read the entire thread, can't do it. What I did read was a silly debate over a bunch of shit that is more political than anything else.
"Car Culture" is at best, a misnomer. It's a sweeping generalization of ludicrous proportions. Just like Music Culture... one size does not fit all. Ever.
I consider myself a "Car Guy" because I love a lot of things about "cars". I love the incredible ingenuity, the groundbreaking engineering, the often beautiful styling, the deft balance between form and function etc.
I don't like Hotrods, not big on classic American muscle, I hate "Rat Rods" and the "Culture" behind them. I think drag racing and cars who's only purpose is a fast 1/4 mile time are stupid. I'll take a slower car with grace, poise, and beauty over that shit all day long. Give me a car that can stop and turn, and I'm happy. I love to drive, it's a very liberating experience, and on track days is stupid fun.
I'm as environmentally conscious as any good liberal, and I celebrate the ever growing increases in mileage along with an equal lessening of harmful emissions. I want more electric cars on the road, and I like that makers like Ferrari and Porsche are embracing hybrid drivetrains. I know the days of the internal combustion engine are quickly ticking down. But, in the meantime, I also celebrate the incredible leaps in efficiency that make the old phrase "No replacement for displacement" an antiquated falsehood. How great is it that a modern 4cyl motor can develop more BHP than the most muscled muscle cars of the 60s, 70s, 80s etc while getting 5x the mileage and with 10% of the carbon footprint? They do all of that while being magnitudes safer and more reliable, and with astounding creature comforts and handling/driveability.
I've had more than my share of nonsensical toy cars that guzzled gas or were capable of race car performance. I didn't drive them every day. They had their time and place, but I'm not an asshole just for owning them (plenty of other much more valid reasons why I'm an asshole). I could go out this afternoon and buy another if I wanted. I'm often tempted, but so far have been able to resist. But, if I truly wanted a Ferrari, I'd just buy one.
Instead, I do 95% of my daily driving in a tiny, 101BHP FIAT 500 that gets 40MPG. My "fun" car is yet another FIAT (124 Abarth Spyder) with a whopping 180BHP and slightly worse mileage, and is essentially a Mazda Miata in an Italian suit. I love them both. I'm not at all ashamed of that fact.