Finally got a blood draw and spinal tap was successful. Then her IV was occluded and they had to bring in a level 1 trauma phlebotomy expert who hit the IV line first try with no pain. That's saying something. She has terrible deep veins. I am an emotional roller coaster. She might actually come home tomorrow.
I may have said it already but official diagnosis, finally, is MS. Significant brain lesions and spinal lesions. Good news is it explained literally everything that has been wrong in 15 years. Bad news is we really have to watch this and do a lifestyle change. Glad to have answers. Looking forward to having her home. Now to decompress and just let the tears come for an hour or more. I need a solid release. Just let it out and vent. Gonna feel amazing.