The Thread for Night Owls, West Coasters, Early-Rising Europeans, etc.

i'm still up over here on the east coast....almost midnight....kiddos are sleeping and i'm relaxing after a busy weekend....
 
Riddle me this -- why is revising a 20+ page paper 20x more odious than writing it in the first place? I feel like I'm merely doing the squirm to get a grade. Which shouldn't make me feel icky because I write dreck for idiots all day long, but for some reason I've decided to make avoiding this revision a matter of personal pride.
 
i'm still up over here on the east coast....almost midnight....kiddos are sleeping and i'm relaxing after a busy weekend....

I can relate. Or wish I could, rather.

Riddle me this -- why is revising a 20+ page paper 20x more odious than writing it in the first place? I feel like I'm merely doing the squirm to get a grade. Which shouldn't make me feel icky because I write dreck for idiots all day long, but for some reason I've decided to make avoiding this revision a matter of personal pride.

Don't respect your prof?
 
My kids wanted to level up on Rock Band today, so I sang for about two hours straight....







Currently we are touring in some kind of airplane, but my voice is shot.
 
Don't respect your prof?

It's not that, but it's that I sense he's being manipulative. This is the intro-to-grad-studenting-in-history bit. He's doing that thing where he's proving to you that you don't know anything and forcing your learning into a narrative arc where you're made to feel dumb and then led to embrace his teaching and come out the end of the course successful and part of the "community of letters."

Also, he's a liberal American Jew whose field of study is history of everyday life in Germany in the early-to-mid 20th Century. And he fancies himself an existentialist and theoretically rigorous historian. Which means he's got his own personal and political iron in the fire all the time. Also, he's one of those American liberals and Euro historians who pooh-poohs American stuff and American pop culture and whathaveyou. So, besides my interest in everyday life and material culture, he could really care less about my topic. My working class hero American jerkass spidey sense is tingling.

Plus he goes out of his way to be intimidating -- I picked up on it a bit, and I really don't get intimidated. And other people are pretty scared/threatened by him.

I think it's just a case of knowing exactly what is going on and just not wanting to make the effort to deal with it. Plus it's the end of semester AND my job has been a horror lately (for totally stupid reasons).
 
I'm just relaxing right now. Not looking forward to tommorow at all.

Oh and my step dad gave me the banhammer for a month on my phone, iPod and computer because I didn't "look for things to do" after he gave me a speech about it yesterday. He'll come around in a couple days and unban me. :embarrassed:

Hasn't taken my iPod away yet...I've stored it safely away in my room. :embarrassed:
 
I'm just relaxing right now. Not looking forward to tommorow at all.

Oh and my step dad gave me the banhammer for a month on my phone, iPod and computer because I didn't "look for things to do" after he gave me a speech about it yesterday. He'll come around in a couple days and unban me. :embarrassed:

Hasn't taken my iPod away yet...I've stored it safely away in my room. :embarrassed:

You could try convincing him that either positive or negative reinforcement would be more effective than punishment, in the long term. Especially when it comes to punishing a non-action. And especially when that punishment will not be enforced.

No wonder you don't like The Beatles.

My sympathies.
 
I think it's just a case of knowing exactly what is going on and just not wanting to make the effort to deal with it. Plus it's the end of semester AND my job has been a horror lately (for totally stupid reasons).

Yeah, it doesn't sound like you've got a lot to work with, there.
 
You could try convincing him that either positive or negative reinforcement would be more effective than punishment, in the long term. Especially when it comes to punishing a non-action. And especially when that punishment will not be enforced.

No wonder you don't like The Beatles.

My sympathies.

Thank you.

First three chapters of How To Win Friends and Influence People: Fundamental techniques in handling people...

1. "Don't criticize, or complain."
2. "Give honest and sincere appreciation."
3. "Arouse an eager want or desire in the other person."

He fails so epicly in all three of these categories.

And he says The Beatles are 'stupid' which I won't even say. messedup0
 
Thank you.

First three chapters of How To Win Friends and Influence People: Fundamental techniques in handling people...

1. "Don't criticize, or complain."
2. "Give honest and sincere appreciation."
3. "Arouse an eager want or desire in the other person."

He fails so epicly in all three of these categories.

And he says The Beatles are 'stupid' which I won't even say. messedup0

To be fair, How To Win Friends and Influence People probably ought not to be used as a guide to parenting.
 
To be fair, How To Win Friends and Influence People probably ought not to be used as a guide to parenting.

True, but I think it still can be used.

I don't think it's wrong that he grounds me or whatever, it's that he does it for the stupidist crap, and that he doesn't give a shit for any of the things I do nice. Frequently saying I "live for myself" and backhandingly calling me a dick today can be added to his resume.

Anyways, don't mean to bother everyone with my little 15 year old problems. Continue on. :embarrassed:
 
I'm making some last minute changes to the Jingle Bell Rock arrangement that my students are learning for Christmas in Loveland. After I finish up I'm going to go trim up my neck a bit and then go to bed.
 
I'm in procrastinator's hell and I'm going to be here for a while.

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