Well, as far as "moving on with life," I don't consider myself to be qualified to tell others how much they should or shouldn't care about something. If we're going to do it, whether it be make music or organize a football game, hey, let's try to do it as well as possible.
The NFL is terrible at this.
As far as officiating goes, I suppose I'm too old to 'get' things now, but I'm appalled at how officials don't seem to value invisibility any more. When I wore a striped shirt and a whistle (please laugh - it was during my 'grunge' period with hair to my ass) I felt incredibly good on the nights that no one noticed me and I simply walked off the court to my car. If I was super lucky, a very classy coach might nod at me and say "nice game."
Now, we have guys who think they ought to be giving payback to Chris Paul for his gamesmanship re: delay of game ... what ridiculousness. Hochule seemed to never get enough of himself, and now we have refs who are throwing 16-22 flags a game. Umpires who 'go after' players in MLB.
Blech.